We get it, self discovery is hard. 
Everyone of us has something unique.
A personality, a story, and a life never felt in exactly the same way. Beautiful at its core, but mixed in an awkward concoction of experiences.
Our wish is for others to see the beauty, to dig through the sands, and to see us for the gems we are. But we have to ask ourselves honestly.

How much sand can we expect them to go through?

When those missed connections become continual - it's time to ask Why?
Is it because others aren't giving you a chance?
Are they blind to your qualities?
or maybe...

You just haven't sifted enough sands to be found.

People by nature require Signals.
Signals that guide attention to you.
Signals that you are not a threat.
Signals that you are the person they wish to meet.

 Chapter 2: Signals – the natural savage